Wednesday, November 22, 2017

On Good Writing, Good Reading, and Gratitude

November sunset 2017
“Oh what marvels fill me with thanksgiving! The deep mahogany of a leaf once green. The feathered fronds of tiny icicles coating every twig and branch in a wintry landscape. The feel of goosebumps thawing after endured frozen temperatures. Both hands clamped around a hot mug of herbal tea. The aromatic whiff of mint under my nose. The stir of emotion from a child's cry for mommy...The milky luster of a single pearl. Rainbows reflecting off iridescence bubbles. Awe-struck silence evoked by any form of beauty..."  --Richelle E. Goodrich, Slaying Dragons (GoodReads)

"Oh, what marvels fill me with thanksgiving..." A recent November sunset (above) was one such marvel for me. And almost always on morning walks some previously unobserved detail will pop, even on the most dreary of days. If only I could train myself to be more observant, I would see more marvelous things!

Writers have their own ingatherings that spur a sense of thanksgiving. Ann Lamott, for example, writes about her gratitude for good writing: "...for some of us, books are as important as anything else on earth. What a miracle it is that out of these small, flat, rigid pieces of paper unfolds world after world, worlds that sing to you, comfort and quiet you or excite you. Books help us understand who we are and how we are to behave. They show us what community and friendship mean; they show us how to live and die. They are full of the things that you don't get in life...wonderful, lyrical language, for instance. And quality of attention: we may notice amazing details during the course of a day but we rarely let ourselves stop and really pay attention. An author makes you notice, makes you pay attention and this is a great gift. My gratitude for good writing is unbounded. I'm grateful for it the way I'm grateful for the ocean."

A commenter at a past BookRiot post, "10 Literary Quotes for Thanksgiving" (here) gave an interesting list of what he was grateful for as a reader, including:
...finishing a book just as the train pulls into the station
...seeing someone reading a favorite book in public
...a good beginning
...a better ending
...a mysterious, wistful inscription in a used book
...a bustling bookstore in full holiday swing
...acknowledgements that are honest, funny and humble
...picking up a classic you've been avoiding and loving it

Yet, as writers, what about those times when the writing is hard, the words won't come, and we're ready to give it all up? Annie Neugebauer at WriterUnboxed addresses this issue in her article "Getting Back to Grateful" She writes, "If there's one universal truth about all types of writing and all types of writers, it's probably that this is hard. Writing is difficult...It's also wonderful." But when it's not wonderful, when it's more like "heavy sludge" as Ms. Neugebauer describes it, how do we get back to the feeling of wonderful? Her antidote: gratitude.

"You don't have to buy things or fix things or rearrange," she writes. "You don't have to take a hiatus. You don't have to go to switch genres or go back to school. You don't have to change a single thing you're doing; you only have to change the way you look at them. How? Gratitude." She continues by making the point that science supports the idea ("Gratitude changes your mindset, your sense of contentment, your mental and physical health."); that a 'gratitude depository' (she calls hers a Joy Jar) is a nifty tool; and concludes by listing the many things a writer has to be thankful for. It's a great read.

Finally, from A.A. Milne:

"Piglet noticed that even though he had a Very Small Heart, it could hold a rather large amount of Gratitude." 

Beauty and marvels abound. Books and good words abound. Blessings around our Thanksgiving tables abound. May we give ourselves space to recognize them and, fashioned a bit like Piglet, enlarge our hearts to gather in more of a thing called gratitude. Happy Thanksgiving!

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6 comments:

  1. What a lovely post! Such a good reminder. I'm grateful for reading, writing, good books, art of various genres. They all enrich the spirit. Good friends and family, and views around town when I walk. The list is endless when I think of it. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving.

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    1. Thanks, Elizabeth--you share a great list of things to be grateful for, all true gifts to enrich the spirit for sure :-) I'm guessing you would also add your trips to Spain to your list! Wishing you a wonderful Thanksgiving in return. Have a beautiful day...

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  2. Your first photo reminds me of the text I sent to good friends yesterday -- a sunrise photo and the message: Morning has broken! Happy Thanksgiving!

    Hope you had a beautiful holiday. I, too, am grateful for reading and writing. Without them, my life would seem empty. Every day, I give thanks for my writer friends, and your name always comes to mind. Happy Thanksgiving, Writer Friend!

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    1. Peggy, we must have had the same Ohio sunrise yesterday. I marveled at how the colors were mighty similar to that sunset only a couple of days before. Took a picture of it, as well... :-)

      And yes, writer friends are on our thanksgiving lists--and you're at the top of mine! How many years ago was it that we met at that regional SCBWI conference in Columbus, eight or nine? Your encouragement and writer insights have always buoyed me up. I am so glad we have kept in touch. Wishing you all the best. Thanks for your friendship :-)

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  3. Hi Kenda, hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving :)

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    1. Rachna, so nice to see you again :-) Hope all is well. A new year is fast approaching--wishing you a great year ahead with many writing successes!

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